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Divorce – Thoughts to help parents part 2
What about the kids? What do I say?
What about the kids?
Distracted, unhappy people are usually distracted unhappy parents, so it can be difficult to help our...
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Divorce – Thoughts to help parents part 3
Everything Changes – Moving On
Coping
Following the breakup, you will need to begin to think about what life will be like for all of you from now on.
It’s...
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Parenting Support
When most people think of a "parent" they have visions of young and very young children being parented. Relate know that the joys and struggles of parenting last throughout life and ebb and flow...
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About Relate for Parents
When most people think of a "parent" they have visions of young and very young children being parented. Relate know that the joys and struggles of parenting last throughout life and ebb and flow...
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Maintaining Contact
In this section:
What is contact?
What's it for?
Does contact matter?
The right level of contact?
Should the children have a say?
Formal or Informal?
All day in McDonalds?
Special...
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Problem Behaviour
In this section:
Why is this happening?
Trouble at school
Trouble with drugs
Why is this happening?
When parents separate, it is easy to blame everything that happens in your...
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Stress
In this section:
Things that cause stress are called stressors
Signs of Stress
Here are some ideas about managing stress that you might want to talk about with your teenager - they might even help you to...
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Eating Disorders
In this section:
Anorexia
Bulimia
Binge Eating Disorder
Anorexia and Bulimia: What to Look For
What Causes Eating Disorders?
Eating disorders are really common; 1 or 2 out of every 100...
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A "Good Enough" Parent
In this section:
What is a good dad or a good mum?
Making Connections
What is a good dad or a good mum?
That's a really tough question.Maybe all you or anybody else can really expect...
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Boost your children's self esteem – for parents with children of all ages
In this section:
• What is self esteem or self worth? • Start with yourself! • Building the foundations of...
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Parenting Extras: Quotes and Jokes (A few thoughts on...)
In this section:
Relationships
Parenting
Children
Teenagers
If you sometimes think that being a parent can be pretty tough then you're...
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Teenagers - Fun activities to do together
In this section:
What were you like as a teenager?
What is your teenager like?
Teenage pressures
Family Tree
Family Sheild
Mapping the Problem
We have put...
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Parenting Extras: Facts and Figures
Each year in the UK between 150,000 and 200,000 parental couples separate (Parental Separation: Children's needs and Parents' Responsibilities UK Government report,...
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Family holidays - do they wind you down or wind you up?
Holidays are all about fun, leisure, pleasure and a break from usual routines. For most individuals, couples and families, holidays can be a time to re-connect with...
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Change - big bang or small steps
The problem
Once you’ve decided what you want to change, the challenge is how to go about it. Many people believe that to solve a problem you need to understand why it has...
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We need to talk!
What does this mean to you? Is it just an invitation to have a conversation – something you’ll make sure you have time for? Or does your heart sink?
Humans have a unique way of...
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Arguments - Not in Front of the Children?
How to Argue, Survive and Thrive.
Arguments and disagreements are a fact of life for almost everybody. It would be surprising if we could get through life without once feeling...
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Family conflict (2 of 3)
Understanding
Firstly, it’s worth remembering that there are at least two sides to every conflict, and that each side has its viewpoint and feelings. If either side’s...
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Parenting when separated/divorced
Divorce and children can be a recipe for a difficult situation. The break-up of a marriage or committed co-habiting partnership is always stressful, even in those rare...
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Parenting when Separated or Divorced - Custody and Access
In an ideal, post-separation world, the parents would each live close by, so that the kids have easy access to both parents, and that the parents can retain a...
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Family Secrets
All families have secrets of one kind or another. Letters, photos, objects locked hidden away at the back of a drawer, perhaps memories of past events, too painful, shameful, or precious to recount, or...
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Video Library
Relate has produced a series of videos, which parents and families might find interesting and supportive.
The McIntyre Family Mini-Series
Meet the McIntyre family - Zoe and her son Richie, daughter...
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The McIntyre Family
Part 1 - "It's not the same": Steve's View
Who do you relate to?
Click here to watch Part 1 - "It's not the same"
Click here for Zoe's view
Click here for Chloe's view
Click...
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The McIntyre Family
Part 2 - "You're not my Dad": Steve's View
Who do you relate to?
Click here to watch Part 2 - "You're not my Dad"
Click here for Zoe's view
Click here for Chloe's...
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The McIntyre Family
Part 4 - "Runaway": Steve's View
Who do you relate to?
Click here to watch Part 4 - "Runaway"
Click here for Zoe's view
Click here for Chloe's view
Click here for Richie's...
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Grandparenting (and Step-Grandparenting)
We collected a few quotations about grandparents….
A grandmother is a babysitter who watches the kids instead of the television
Just when a woman thinks...
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The McIntyre Family
Part 5 - "The Fishing Trip": Chloe's View
Who do you relate to?
Click here to watch Part 5 - "The Fishing Trip"
Click here for Zoe's view
Click here for Chloe's...
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The McIntyre Family
Part 5 - "The Fishing Trip": Steve's View
Who do you relate to?
Click here to watch Part 5 - "The Fishing Trip"
Click here for Zoe's view
Click here for Chloe's...
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Setting Boundaries for Teenagers
Teenagers need firm guidance from their parents. Many people will remember the battles to stay out for half an hour longer, or go somewhere that our parents thought was not appropriate....
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Ideas to reduce family arguments
No matter how much you look forward to the family being together at holiday times and week-ends, it does increase the potential for tensions and arguments. After the usual Easter, Summer...
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Parenting Grown Up Children – A Dad’s Story
I am Sam. I’m coming up to retirement. Fiona and I are worried about our eldest son, Matthew. He’s married to a lovely girl, Rosie; they had their...
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Only 17 per cent of children trust dad for advice about bullying
New research out 14th March 2010 reveals that while most dads (61 per cent) feel comfortable giving advice to their children about bullying only one in...
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The McIntyre Family
Part 6 - "The Holiday": Steve's View
Who do you relate to?
Click here to watch Part 6 - "The Holiday"
Click here for Zoe's view
Click here for Chloe's view
Click here...
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Parenting Grown Up Children – A Mum’s Story
I am Fiona, I am 60, married to Sam. We have two grownup children, Mark, who lives with his male partner and Matthew who is married to Rosie, they have two...
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Back to School - Tips for getting organised
One minute it’s 2 weeks to go before the children go back to school
Next minute – it’s tomorrow
Time to get organised however late you have started to...
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Relate's guide to beating the ‘back to school blues’
Relate for parents is here to offer advice to help parents of the estimated 11 million students preparing to start a new school year this September....
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