Single on Valentine’s Day ?

If you are single, then all of the hype about Valentine’s Day may leave you feeling low. So let’s look at what you can do to enjoy the day on your own.

Here are some ideas –but the main thing is also to control your thoughts. Once you start going down the road of remembering how things used to be, or what a romantic time everyone else is having , you are setting yourself up to be unhappy. Tell yourself that you are going to make a point of enjoying a day to yourself! Whether you are with your children or apart from them –use Valentine’s day as an opportunity to let them know that you love them.

But let’s look at things you can do on your own.

• Do something nice for yourself like taking a long, hot bath by candlelight
• Watch an action movie, preferably one in which at least one of the love interests gets killed off near the beginning. ( think James Bond )
• Avoid romantic “chick flicks” completely, unless you like feeling sad.
• Buy yourself a bunch of your favourite flowers or a box of your favourite chocolates - at least you get to choose exactly what you want this way!
• Go somewhere that isn't likely to be pushing the Valentine's Day theme. Sporting or theatrical events are good possibilities.
• Have some fun with your other single friends. Rent a film and get takeout food, go to a nightclub, or have dinner together at a nice restaurant. Call it a "Non-Valentine" party if you like.
• Tell your Mum you love her.
• Get a head start on planning a holiday
• Call or email someone you've lost touch with - could be just a friend, or someone you once had a crush on. Try friends reunited.
• Do something nice for a neighbour—even if it is simply to smile and say hello.

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